The divorce rate in America is over 40 percent, that’s a lot. What ever happen to, till death do us part? People are not dating anymore. They are infatuated with the exterior of a person and jumping the broom before love has an opportunity to set in. It’s like buying a pair of shoes without trying them on; when you get home they don’t fit, they were on sale and you can’t return them. Now, you’re stuck with a pair of shoes that do not fit you. So, what do you do? Get rid of them.
People all around the world talked about Kim Kardashian’s wedding; 72 days later, the world make a joke about her divorce. All over Twitter millions of people made a mockery of her marriage being shorter than a trending topic. Jennifer Lopez has been married and divorced 3 times. After every relationship, the world’s question was who is next? Recently, the infamous Will and Jada Pinkett Smith got a divorce. After 14 years of marriage, who would have thought their love would have diminished. The media has led people to believe the duo being swingers has dampened their relationship, and they are tired of faking it.
The significance of marriage has changed drastically. Years ago, when people made that vow to one another, they did it for life, not for right now. When they said, “I do,” they already accepted one another’s flaws, and appreciated that one made the other feel secure. That saying, “Why put off for tomorrow what you can accomplish today,” does not apply to everything, especially, not to matters of the heart.
I often encourage my male peers to find them a Janella. It's like a way of saying that you should have someone that you are solely and discreet intimate with. I do not fancy sleeping around, and I'm not quite ready to engage in a serious relationship, but I, like most other people, sometimes need to release stress. Janella and I are perfect in the sense that I fulfill her fantasy, and she satiates my urges. There are no emotions involved, though we do care for each other. Its quite professional, safe, and eliminates much hassle!
ReplyDeleteI am very seletive with whom I choose to sleep with. I cannot just have casual sex so, a Janella, or maybe I should say Jamal would not work for me. When I need to relase stress I might have a drink or run around with my daughter lol my heart and body is reserved for love with one person only : ) I might be waiting forever.
DeleteBlondeberry posted about J.Lo's recent split too in her blog. I think the institution of marriage has become somewhat of a fad for people. It's not about love anymore; it's about finding someone so you don't seem like the odd one out. I think people rush into it, and don't consider what a marriage really is.
ReplyDeleteI think it is sad that people get married 'for fun' while, in the mean time, we have people who love one another, but are unable to wed because of homophobes and outrageously-bigoted people. In my opinion, if two people love one another, then who are we to stop them? People can quote the Bible, but take a look at the Old Testament, which says that marriage is between a man and his hired help, 1000 wives, etc. So as long as it's a man and a woman, they can wed? What about love and devotion? Wedding vows mean nothing nowadays ('til death do us part). I guess I'm going out on a tangent, but the point is that it's kind of disturbing that people are so fast to wed and then so fast to divorce. It seems like a game, in my eyes, and I don't understand how people can just go from person to person. I can understand, from a dating perspective, but marriage is supposed to mean something.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you 100% !
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