Why Cheat

Candy said it best, "everybody cheats, but you got to know how, you got to when, and you got to know why."  The real question is what's the point? If that person does not satisfy your every needs, why is it so hard to tell them that it is over. Life would be so much easier and maybe a lot more peaceful if people were honest with themselves.

I took a poll at my work place, and beside the controversy I stirred up I was able to come up with three reasons why men and women cheat.

                   3. Lack of Sex

So, apparently if you're not putting out your partner will be looking elsewhere. Intercourse is a big part in a relationship, marriage, fling... Whatever your preference hopefully, it comes with a very healthy sex drive to keep your partner happy and monogamous.

                   2. Jealously

Everyone can't handle the male friends and the late night phone calls.  When jealously enters the relationship, it's not a pretty color on anyone. If you can't handle your significant others past, present, and what his future might hold, maybe you should be more selective. Jealously should never be a factor in a relationship unless, you're insecure and that's a problem that should be addressed before you make a commitment to someone.

                   1. Neglect

 Change is only good for better. If you use to do something you can't just stop. You can't forget to tell them that you love them, or give them a kiss goodnight. I know if my man forgot about me, I might not remember him when put under pressure by an attractive young man (smile).

According to my co workers these are the main reasons they would cheat on their partners. 2 particular comment I found very interesting was by a man who said, “If I don't think I'm going to marry her I'm going to cheat on her" and by a women, “if I see a naked picture in his phone I'm cheating."  To everyone out there choose your partners wisely, because you never know what you might get.

"Think Like A Man"

 So everyone has been ranting about the new movie "Think like a Man." Personally, I don't want to think like a man I'd rather be surprised by what our men have to offer (smile). For all you women who do, Kudos.

The movie is definitely a guideline on how to treat different type of men like, the mommas boy or the "thug" lol, but I feel the most controversial topic was the 90 day rule. I have asked peoples opinions on the rule and most people think you should not put limits on when you have sex with a person. The funniest comment to me was from one of my best friends and she said, "You have to test drive it before you buy it." Although, that's just her opinion, I know many women think the same way. I hope this movie does not have women all over the world acting up and changing who they are to fit this criteria of what one man said, all men want in a women.

My advice to all women is, a man is going to be who he is regardless what you do or how long you hold out so, rule number 1 be yourself!!!!

Love of My Life

   When I'm sad, she makes me laugh and when I need someone to talk too, she is there, although she does not always understand me, I commend her for trying. She gives  me the strength to keep going and there are often times when I feel like giving up. It's amazing how something so small had such a huge impact on my life. The only pain she ever caused me was getting her here, and that was the best pain I've ever endured. When I held her for the first time I immediately fell in love and when I put her down she cried, I knew she loved me too. I can't wait to see what she grows up to be, I always wonder if she would be exactly like me. I love her and she love me unconditionally. She is my Dakota Jolie ❤

"Bye Love"

I know you think about me

Cause I think about you

The feelings have to be mutual

Cause my feelings were true

Remember in the morning when you told me how I use to hold you,

I can't even recall, but that's how I know my soul loved you I put my all into you and I love you maybe a little to much cause I still feel you

I try to block it all out, but I still need you

Just tell me that you love me cause I still want you more than anything.

It's like I need to let it all go

Can't look at the pictures long enough to let it all go

I want to throw it away, but my heart won't go

To another place no matter what it shows off to be.

          What I think about the most

 Is how we use to laugh about I don't even know, but it was really funny I guess, how you held me close and tried to tell me a secret, it was just the two of us. I may never get over my Love, 

Even though my heart hurts you should now this my love

Might never stop flowing, an ocean of love

My life I'll keep a float, won't drown in my love